A response to you.....

I received a comment on my blog...that was from my cousin R. I use this blog as comic relief and don't usually talk about my family matters (only when funny). This is a long running thing that has been going on within HER family - and it's a very sad and private situation actually. But - since I will not delete anything - I will reply to R as best as I can. I would do this in private - as it should be done - but I have no clue where my cousin lives - what she does - or who she is anymore. The last time I saw her was at my Grandfathers funeral.

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R - I do not keep up with family feuds. I have much better things to do with my time. I have my own drama and my own life to live. I dont want to hear about them (fueds) and I don't ask. I know so little about my family that I must call my Mother everytime I am in a Dr.'s office to know what to check on the "family history section" (Just did it today in fact).

As I said before - I havent heard a peep from you since Grandpa's funeral. My family has not banned you or abandoned you - we havent heard from you. Although -if you are going to talk bad about a anyone - we would rather stay out of it and not get the call.

I know you have good things in your life - although I was not invited to them - heard about them...sounds like life isnt too bad for you.

Also - I do not know of fake letters nor have I been in the loop of these so called mass emailings.

You think we are against you and I can honestly say....no one is against you R. Your the one that seems to keep this "thing" alive - don't you just want to move on with your life?

Hate is tiring.

I do know this - if there is any drama - it is between you and your parents. Not the world - not the rest of your family. No one wants to hear about it -its too sad and draining on everyone involved.

Move on R - move one....

Life is too short and if you look around - the sun is shining outside.

A good indiction that your alive and you made it though another day.

Let it go....just let it go.